Nathalie Miller - "kansas"
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Nathalie Miller is a Boston native and currently resides in Brooklyn. Her latest single, "kansas," is an alt-pop masterpiece. It's "a platonic friendship break up song" that's absolutely stunning. If, like me, you normally recoil at the term "pop," you truly need to give this one a shot. "kansas" is a power ballad that will almost instantly suck you in and hold you for three and a half minutes, not really wanting it to end. It's the kind of indie pop that Blondshell and Lucy Dacus make that is still going to appeal to those of us that can't quite lose their indie rock snobbery. The subject of the song is kind of a downer, but Miller turns it into a surprisingly uplifting song.
Nathalie Miller says of her latest single:
“I noticed that in most of my friendships with women, I just felt like a person. But in a lot of my past friendships with men, I was really hyper aware of being a girl and playing the role of emotional support mother or girlfriend without receiving that support back. I remember thinking to myself, ‘I know the first and last name of every person who’s ever been mean to these guys, and they don’t even know what book I am currently reading, or the names of my brothers’.
“To me, it’s a platonic friendship breakup song that I wrote after taking a step back from a lot of those friendships and looking at the patterns that threaded them all together.”
You can listen to "kansas" below. like you used to is due out October 24. For more on Nathalie Miller, check out the artist's website.